请问，您的孩子觉得你家中拥有亲切感呢？孩子见到父母彼此相爱吗？孩子看到父母互相拥抱吗？孩子感到父母爱他们吗？孩子可以自由地问父母任何问题吗？你家是否给孩子无话不谈的环境？孩子敢不敢把内心深处的话都告诉你呢？你曾经跟他们谈论有关性这个问题吗？与孩子一块阅读圣经就是一个谈论性以及其他敏感主题的好方法。圣经内容包括爱、性、情感、怒气、友谊、智慧等，所以给你机会在自然地而康健以及神圣的情况与孩子交谈。
请你与配偶一块阅读圣经真言地五章。
家庭作业：
1）在罗马书第十二章，保罗提到哪些“神?”
2）在您的心理，在您的生命上及在家庭里，
您有哪些“神”需要把它赶走？
3）您是否与你的还在讨论过有关“性”这个主题？（也许时候到了！）
♥ 【基督徒家庭观】目录
1. 家庭如同三角形 ———The Home is like Triangles
2. 家庭的目的: 荣耀神 ———Purpose of the Home: To Glorify God
3. 家庭问题 ———Problems in the Home
4. 对准“焦点” ———Have Proper “Focus”
5. 依靠神过日子 ———Acknowledge Dependence on God
6. 回忆神的作为 ———Remember God’s Gracious Acts
7. 拒绝潮流之“神” ———Reject Popular “Gods”
8. 与家人亲密 ———Intimacy in the Home
9. 休息时间 ———Leisure Time Activities
10.圣经是“家庭手册” ———The Bible is a “Handbook” For the Home
11.家庭圣洁所以性生活也圣洁 ———The Home Is Holy Therefore Sex is Holy
12.我应该离婚吗？ ———Should I Divorce?
8. Intimacy
How much intimacy do children see and feel in your home? Do they feel free to discuss any subject? Would they share their inner-most thoughts with you? Have or will you discuss sex with your children? Reading through the entire Bible with your children is a good way for sex and other sensitive subjects to come up naturally, and to be discussed in a wholesome and Godly environment.
Read Proverbs chapter 5 with your spouse.
1) What wisdom does the father in Proverbs 5
share with his son/daughter?
2) Has your child ever shared his inter-most thoughts with you?
3) Have you ever discussed sex with your child?
(Maybe it is time to do so!)
By Edward Short