因为家庭是神设立的，所以性和性生活也是神创造而建立的。性是神圣的；性生活是好的。性不但是为了传宗接待，性生活是神给丈夫和妻子的一种乐趣。好莱坞和花花公子的观念是变态行为。性交是一件自然、美丽、神圣的事情，是夫妻彼此之间爱的表达。你的身体是上帝创造的所以他是神圣的。请重视你的身体——婚前保守你的童贞，婚后对你的配偶忠心。请在自己配偶的身上寻找你的快乐。
家庭作业：
思考：请跟配偶一块儿阅读《圣经》:
旧约雅歌（最好研读全部但是至少参阅第四章）；
新约哥林多前书7:1-5; 6:15-20。
1）神为何创造“性”？
神为什么给人类“行性”的能力？（至少提出二三个理由）
2）请问配偶：“我可以做什么好让你更加地玩赏我们的性生活？”
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11. The Home is Holy Therefore Sex is Holy
God created sex, so sex is good and sex is holy. God created the home, and God provided sexual relations as a joyful element in marriage. Images from Hollywood, and the “playboy mindset,” are perversions of sex, and are totally self-centered lifestyles. Sexual intercourse, as God intended, however, is natural, beautiful and holy; it is an expression of love between husband and wife.
Read with spouse: Song of Solomon
(best to read entire book, but at least read chapter 4);
1 Corinthians 7:1-5; 6:15-20
1) Why did God create sex?
Why did God enable mankind to have sexual activity?
(Give at least two or three reasons.)
2) Discuss with your spouse how you can make him/her happier.
By Edward Short （谢德华）